Bless Your Heart

Living out loud in the Carolinas

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  • We woke up and looked out past our balcony and saw nothing but ocean.  Wha?? We were supposed to be docked at Coco Cay!  I called Guest Services and they told me that because of bad weather we couldn’t dock at Coco Cay so we were making our way to Nassau instead.  SAD FACE.  I was SO looking forward to Coco Cay.  Oh well.

    We dressed and went up to the Windjammer buffet for breakfast at our usual table.  It was raining so our choices of activities were limited to inside ones. We picked up a new Cruise Compass (newsletter that tells you all the activities) and decided to go to a music trivia contest.  Well that was quiet and boring.  We lasted about 5 minutes then we were out of there.  According to the Compass they were having Battle of the Sexes in the Centrum soon so we went there to get some seats.  We were early so we sat through a towel animal folding demo first.  It was actually kind of cute.  Battle of the Sexes was basically like Family Feud but men against women. IMG_4666 It featured questions like “Name something you find in a garage”.  Morgan represented the women for the last question, which was “Name a classic movie”.IMG_4667 Morgan said “Titanic”.  It was number 5.  Then the guy she was up against named a movie higher up than 5 on the list so they got control.  The boys and the girls all gathered to come up with answers, but then the boys swept the board!  Poor Momo lost for all the women on the ship!  The women had been on a 5 week winning streak!  At the elevator bank a man said so Momo, “Thanks for losing!”

    We went up to Windjammer for lunch and when we were scouting out tables we noticed a young man with his napkin on his plate, he appeared finished with his lunch.  He also looked familiar to me.  I got closer and noticed it was Chika from Battle of the Sexes! Coincidentally, that’s him in the top picture.  So we said hello and could we have his table?  Right then Momo and Sara appeared and I said “It’s Chika!”  They boxed him in so he just sat down again and spent lunch with us!  (shout out!  Holla!)

    When lunch was over we went back to the cabin for our daily nap. It was still raining by the way. By now we’d docked at Nassau. Momo and Sara decided to go with Chika and some of his friends to Señor Frogs.  I’m too old for that nonsense so Gigi and I took a nap!  We woke up and were getting dressed for dinner while enjoying some wine when the girls returned.  I’d show you a picture from the ridiculousness that took place once the girls came back, but I’d get in serious trouble.  Let’s just say that the cocktail foreshadowing I told you about in the first post was coming to fruition!  Gigi and I were enjoying some wine but not nearly as much as Sara and Morgan enjoyed Señor Frog’s cocktails!

    Dinner that night was formal night so we all got dressed upIMG_4673 in our fanciest outfits IMG_4671and did our hair and makeup all glittery. IMG_4670 Back in the My Fair Lady dining roomIMG_4674, I chose the chilled banana soup, shrimp cocktail, and artichoke crepesIMG_4675 for dinner.  They were really good.  For dessert I had the double strawberry cheesecake. IMG_4676

    Once dinner was over we went to the Orpheum Theatre to see the comedian.  If you’re on deck 5 you have to walk through the smokey (cough, cough) casino to get to the theatre.  But on deck 6 it’s smooth sailing. IMG_4677  The comedian was Carl BanksUnknown-5  He was pretty funny!   After the comedy show we were pretty tired so we headed to bed.  Must have been the rainy, overcast weather making us so sleepy!

    Oh, I want to note that this is the first cruise in YEARS where I didn’t bring my DSLR camera.  I took all my pictures on my phone.  Made for a lot less to carry!

    Next up…Nassau day!

  • Embarkation Day!  Because I’m a Gold member of Royal Caribbean’s Crown and Anchor Club we were able to get priority check in.  YAY.  Trust me, you don’t want to be in line with the masses of people if you can help it.  And get to the port early.  You may have to wait a bit in the terminal before boarding but that’s better than waiting in line when it gets busy after noon.

    We woke up early and went downstairs to the free breakfast at the Residence Inn.   It was good and had a nice selection.  After breakfast we all showered for the last time that week in a standard size shower.  We packed the car and hopped in then went on a quest for a Publix grocery store for some last minute items.  After Publix it was a quick drive to the port. We parked and gave our suitcases to the porters. We had to carry our tote bags on ourselves as we had wine in them.  Royal Caribbean allows each guest 2 bottles of wine each.  That wine (my favorite Moscato) Unknown-5plus my CPAP machine made my Thirty One Easy Breezy ToteUnknown-6 super heavy (but I knew that bag could handle it!).

    We went through security then up the escalators to check in.  We checked in and got our Sea Pass cards. IMG_4721 This card acts as your room key, charge card, and ID while on the ship.  We were told to take a seat and then just a few minutes later it was time to board!  We weren’t able to board until 11am but we went ahead and arrived at the port before 11 to get parked and checked in.  So we were one of the first to board.  While we were in line we actually met 2 couples from Charlotte.

    We went up to the pool deck and to Windjammers, the buffet restaurant for lunch.  We secured a table and wouldn’t you know it, right outside our window was the Disney Magic ship! IMG_4651  I’ll hopefully see you next year Magic!

    While we were having lunch IMG_4652 and waiting to get in to our staterooms, Sara called home to talk to my nephews.  Joey is turning 9 on January 18 and he was worried about how long Sara would be gone.  He asked her “Will you be at my party?”  It was so cute!  Especially because Sara’s the one throwing the party!  

    At 1:30 our rooms were ready (deck 7, #7126 & 7128 connecting) so we went to drop off our tote bags (and wine).  We put the wine in the fridge and freshened up a bit. We met our next door neighbors (Kristen and John from Nashville.  Shout out! Holla!)  Sara and Morgan were in one room and I bunked with Gigi.  Our connecting door was locked though so we called our cabin steward to unlock it.  We left the door open the rest of the trip so it felt like one big room.  This is the view of our room from my bed. On the left is the bathroom (behind the mirror).  Across from the bathroom is the closet.  That skinny door opens to a bunch of shelves.  There are 3 drawers in the closet.IMG_4655 This picture is of the rest of the room. To my left is the connecting door to the other cabin.  There are 3 drawers on each side of the chair at the vanity.  The sofa pulls out to a bed.  Normally there is a queen size bed instead of the 2 twins.  Beyond the coffee table is the balcony. IMG_4659 Sara and Momo would call to us from their balcony before the connecting door was open.IMG_4660

    Next thing we knew it was time for the muster drill (my least favorite part of every cruise).  If you haven’t cruised before this is the very crowded, mandatoryIMG_4658 safety drill you must go through before the ship can leave port.  They sound the horn (SO LOUD OMG!) and you have to line up all pressed against strangers (good people watching though).  Then a ship representative shows you how to put on your life jacket.  Back in the day they would make you wear your life jacket to this but THANK THE GOOD LORD we don’t have to wear the jackets anymore.

    After the drill I had to go by guest services to pick up an extension cord for my CPAP machine.  There were no outlets next to the bed in my cabin for some reason.  They charged me a $25 deposit and gave me a giant, green cord that got quite a few looks on my way back to the cabin.  By the time we got back to the cabin our A/C was working (AGAIN, THANK THE GOOD LORD).  We took a wee nap then unpacked and got dressed for dinner.

    We had some time to kill before dinner (not many activities on embarkation day) so we went to the Schooner Bar and had a drink. IMG_4661  This is a Ketel One Cooler.  SO yum.  I must say, they had quite a few tasty cocktails to choose from, which is a good thing because all I know is I like fun and fruity.  We sat for a while next to the big centrum which was all lit up for the evening. IMG_4662 Deck 4 in the centrum is where all the activities were held (little game shows, demonstrations, etc.).

    Dinner was in the My Fair Lady dining room.  Our waiter was Jon from India and our assistant waiter was Ferdi from Indonesia.  I didn’t write down what everyone ate and I didn’t take pictures of everyone’s meals.  That’s too much documentation.  But I did note what I ate.  I started with the watermelon and raspberry chilled soup.  Don’t be afraid of chilled soups.  They are basically smoothies.  Then I had the shrimp cocktail.  3 shrimp with some sauce.  My main course was the Mojo marinated pork chop with veggies.IMG_4663  Very good.  For dessert I had my favorite- creme brûlée. IMG_4664  SO yum! It was a banana creme brûlée with a piece of biscotti.  I also had hot tea each night after dinner.  Sara would get the cafe mocha.  She loved it.

    Note- Sara is a gluten free vegan.  She was able to eat heartily throughout the entire cruise.  Each night she would go over the menu with the waiter and they would figure something out for her.  So if you have dietary restraints, don’t worry.  The kitchen/restaurant staff will work with you.

    After dinner we went straight to bed!  We were tuckered out!  Next up…Coco Cay Day!

  • To celebrate my little sister Morgan’s college graduation and my mom Gigi’s birthday we decided to take a Ladies Only cruise.  So on Sunday, January 5, I threw my bags into the back of my car and drove to Gigi’s house.  Morgan spent the night there the night before and Sara met us there.   It was misting rain (foreshadowing!) but cleared up just long enough for us to get our car packed with all our suitcases.  I was very proud of myself, I packed everything in one suitcase and one tote bag!  For 6 days!

    It took almost 2 hours to get out of the city!  First of all, Gigi and Momo both had wet hair when I walked in the house.  Let the record show that I arrived exactly on time, by the way.  Then we had to get gas, stop by Starbucks, and finally we were on our way- all 4 of us packed in my little RAV4.

    It rained on us the entire way down to Port Canaveral, Florida. It did let up a bit when we hit the major traffic jam where we sat on the highway for an hour while they pulled an RV out of the muddy median.  We listened to music for a while until the girls picked on my choice.  Why doesn’t everyone love One Direction like me?  Then we listened to a book on CD, Divergent by Veronica Roth. Unknown-7 That really helped the trip go by more quickly.

    Even with the traffic jam and late start we still made decent time and rolled into Port Canaveral about 7pm.  We checked into our room at the Residence Inn.  It’s a gorgeous hotel and I highly recommend it for cruise travelers.  It’s the 2nd closest to the port.  We dropped our bags off in our suite (stock photo) Unknown-5 then we piled back in the car for dinner.

    I’d heard good things about Grills on the water at the port.  I looked up the menu and it looked really good so we set out for Grills Seafood.  We walked in and the smell was so overwhelming we chose to eat outside instead.  The hostess directed us to go outside, down the ramp and around the corner.  We found an empty table and sat down.  There was ketchup and mustard on the table already.  George came over to take our orders.  Sara & Momo ordered cocktails (foreshadowing!). IMG_4649Gigi got a burger (the fishy smell was bothering her), Sara got a veggie burger, Momo got fish tacos and I got shrimp skewers. IMG_4650 Turns out I’m the only one who really liked their meal.  Oh, and the view?  You do see lots of boats parked there at the pier but the main view is of a cement factory!  We asked George (our waiter) what was that factory we were looking at and he said he’d worked there 7 years and didn’t know!  How is that possible??  I would have asked the first day!

    After dinner we went back to the hotel and hit the hay.  It was a long day for me driving all that way in the rain and I was exhausted!  We were asleep before 10pm.

    Next up…Embarkation!

  • A couple months ago I got an email about a psoriasis study.  I was so excited!  A potential treatment for my psoriasis AND I’d get paid each time I went to the dermatologist?  Let’s go!

    I didn’t know if I’d get the placebo ointment or the drug, which was a vitamin D derivative.  Things were going well at first.  Then a few weeks ago my skin started to really itch.  I mean, viciously itch.  I couldn’t stop scratching.  And my skin turned all red. My dermatologist told me I’d been given the drug, so at least we knew why it was happening. Then things got really bad for my poor arms.  The skin got really tight.  And started to crack and bleed. I couldn’t sleep at night for the pain. I decided to drop out of the study.  I went to my next appointment prepared to drop out.  My doctor saw me and said “Take her out of the study right now”.  There were only 2 more weeks of the study to go, but there were also only 2 more weeks before I’m to leave on a cruise with my family.  Here’s what I looked like 2 weeks ago.  No filter. photo My doctor prescribed me a cream and told me to come back the Monday after Christmas. Here’s what my left arm looks like now. photo 2 Less red.  No more pain, thank goodness.  But I still look awful.  I’m not looking forward to putting on short sleeves in less than a week!

    I asked my doctor about getting the shot (Humira, etc) but he said even though my arms are covered I don’t have enough psoriasis all over my body for my insurance to cover the shots and they run about $15k each.  YIKES.   When I get back from the cruise we’ll explore more options.  I’m just hoping for some more fading up until Monday morning when I board the ship in short sleeves!  I can’t go to the Caribbean in long sleeves!  I’ll just keep telling myself I don’t know those people and have myself a grand time!

  • imagesDon’t get all excited folks, there’s no breaking news.  I just wanted to let you all know where we stand right now with the adoption.

    We are still approved for adoption by the state of NC.  Each month I log on to the websites with photo listings of available children (like http://www.adoptuskids.org) and browse the children listed.  Then I choose some kids who would fit with our family and submit their profiles to our social worker so she can submit our home study to the children’s social workers.  Then we wait for the children’s social workers to approve us or not.  We don’t hear if we are not approved.  It’s a long process.  It’s frustrating too because from month to month I see kids on the sites that we’ve submitted for.  While we wait we go to continuing education classes to keep our foster care license current.  Then we start all over the next month.

    Here’s what will happen when we are finally approved: we will start visitation with the child(ren). Their social worker will determine how many visits we’ll need to complete.  Then, once everyone is comfortable with each other we will be able to bring them home!  6 months or so later the adoption will be final.

    So that’s it.  That’s what’s going on with us and our never-ending adoption story!

  • My December Ipsy Glam Bag is here and it’s fabulous!
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    Here’s what was included:

    • NYX Lipstick in Sunflower. IMG_4562 It’s a bit on the bright red side for me (and conservative CSP), plus I’m more of a gloss girl vs lipstick.  So it will go to my mom or sister.
    • Be A Bombshell The One Stick in Flustered.IMG_4563Basically it is a stick you can use as blush or lipstick.  Again on the bright side so it is also going to Momo or Gigi.
    • POP Beauty Eye Shadow Palette in Smokin’ Hot.  A glittery silver, dark gray, and black.  Gorgeous.  I already have these colors so this is going to Momo. IMG_4560
    • Andrea Strip Lashes. IMG_4559So glam!  I’m trying to decide when to use these.  Maybe NYE?  I’ll post pics when I do.
    • Julie G Textured Nail Color in Sugar Plum Fairy.  photoLOVE this color!  It’s blue/purple with silver and purple glitter.  You don’t use it with a top coat so it’s matte.  Here’s a pic of what it looks like applied. 
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    Please disregard the bits on my skin and focus on the cool color and glittery fabulousness!

    All of this came in a super cute black patent patterned zip bag. Join me on ipsy and subscribe to the Glam Bag! You get 4-5 beauty products every month delivered to your door, for just $10. Michelle Phan curates the bags! Check it out here: http://www.ipsy.com/r/1mlq

  • I was checking my email when I noticed a couple of familiar faces looking at me from my Cute Overload email.

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    It was CSP & Zoe! Apparently someone took our America’s Funniest Video submission and edited it down to a GIF.  It was even chosen for GIF of the week.  CSP keeps saying “I can’t believe I’m GIFT of the week!”

    Check it out!  (you may have to click on it to get it to animate)6boi9usYou know, eventually all this fame will go to CSP’s head.  Zoe’s keeping it real though, she’s gangsta like that.

    1. Under the Dome by Stephen King.
    2. Dead in the Family by Charlaine Harris
    3. Dead Reckoning by Charlaine Harris
    4. Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn
    5. Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me (And Other Concerns) by Mindy Kaling
    6. Life As I Blow It by Sarah Colonna
    7. The Truth About Forever by Sarah Dessen
    8. Deadlocked by Charlaine Harris
    9. MWF Seeking BFF by Rachel Bertsche
    10. I’ve Got Your Number by Sophie Kinsella
    11. Every Secret Thing by  Laura Lippman
    12. What Happened To Goodbye by Sarah Dessen
    13. Fallen by Karin Slaughter
    14. Somebody To Love by Kristan Higgins
    15. Girls in White Dresses by Jennifer Close Unknown
    16. It Looked Different On The Model by Laurie Notaro
    17. Wedding Night by Sophie Kinsella
    18. Bad Monkey by Carl Hiaasen
    19. Full Moon Bride by Shobahn Bantwal
    20. Bossypants by Tina Fey
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    21. Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See
    22. The Next Accident by Lisa Gardner
    23. Margot by Jillian Cantor

    Am currently reading Orange is The New Black by Piper Kerman.  Can’t put it down!  I’m embarrassed at the lack of reading I’ve done this year!  Pitiful!  Usually I’ve read this many books by Spring!  Must do better next year!

     

  • CSP wrecked his beloved truck a few weeks ago.   It’s a 2004 Chevy Silverado.  The cd player is broken but it runs great.  Our insurance covers a car rental and our body shop happens to also be a Hertz agency.  So they hooked us up with our rental car when we dropped off the injured truck, Q-Tip.

    They gave us a 2014 Chevrolet Equinox. Unknown-2 Fully tricked out.  All the bells and whistles.  Leather seats, heated seats, sun roof, XM radio, back up camera, the works.  It even has lane assist so if you cross over the painted lines on the road it beeps at you.  Also if you get too close to the car in front of you it lights up and beeps at you.  CSP instantly named the car Simon, because Simon says you’re driving too close, etc.   If Hertz’s goal was to make CSP fall in love with the car, then they are clever, clever bastards because that’s exactly what happened.

    I called CSP at work the other day and they said he was at lunch.  I called his mobile phone.  “Where are you?”  CSP- “Just sitting in the car”.   He swoons over this car.

    We finally got the call that CSP’s truck is ready to be picked up tomorrow.  They are going to have to peel CSP away from Simon.  It’s true love.   Today I had a hair appointment.  My salon is over 30 miles away.  It’s a 65+ mile round trip (she’s fabulous and the price is right, even with gas).  So I drove Simon and CSP drove my car, Blanca, to work.  CSP said driving Blanca now is like driving a go cart.  She’s a Toyota RAV4 and she takes offense to that.  My phone beeped while I was at the salon, indicating I had a text message.  The following is the conversation I had with CSP via text:

    IMG_4390Notice how it starts out so sweet.  Aw!  He wishes he was with me!  But NO!  It’s Simon he really wished he was with!  He’s obsessed!  I mean, I get that it’s going to be hard going from 2014 spaceship on wheels to a 2004 truck that smells like coffee and farts, but come on!  He may need grief counseling after he trades Simon in tomorrow.  Pray for my husband.

  • 1420382_10152052527329808_1132768715_nMy November Ipsy Glam Bag is here!  The theme this month is Glam It Up!  Here are the items I received in my bag:

    • Nailtini nail polish (full size) in Caviar Cocktail.  A shimmery dark silver.
    • Be A Bombshell full size lip crayon in Hot Damn (a hot pink)
    • .em full size Lash Gallery mascara in brown
    • Starlooks eyeliner pencil (full size) in Amethyst (a sparkly silvery purple)
    • Pixi full size Beauty Bronzer in Subtly Suntouched
    • Sample size of HSI Professional argan oil leave in hair treatment

    All in a snazzy gold faux snake skin wristlet.

    Join me on ipsy and subscribe to the Glam Bag! You get 4-5 beauty products every month delivered to your door, for just $10. Michelle Phan curates the bags! Check it out here: http://www.ipsy.com/r/1mlq

     

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