Bless Your Heart

Living out loud in the Carolinas

January 2026
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  • Today we are in beautiful San Juan, Puerto Rico!

    We woke up fairly early to have breakfast in the Galley. We noticed our ship was docked next to the MSC Grandiosa. Huge ship! It holds 6334 guests plus crew!

    After breakfast we went back to our room to get covered in sunscreen and grab what we needed for the day then we walked to Old San Juan.

    We noticed there were 4 ships in port!

    Ours (the Resilient Lady), the Grandiosa, MSC World America (that we saw in Miami), and Carnival Magic. The World America holds 6762 passengers, and the Magic holds 3690 passengers. So that’s 18,886 extra people walking around San Juan (if everyone got off the ships)!!! Not including crew! Amazing!

    MSC Grandiosa docked next to our Resilient Lady.

    It was HOT and sunny today. A gorgeous day for taking in the sights. We didn’t really know where we were going, we just walked in the direction of Old San Juan. As we were leaving the dock area we were walking behind two couples. The women were both wearing stilettos that had to be at least 3 inches tall! I couldn’t believe it! My feet hurt at the end of the day from walking over 4 miles on cobblestone streets and up and down hills, and I was wearing my sneakers! I can’t imagine how they must have felt!

    There was a band singing with 2 giant bugs dancing when we started our day…and they were still there dancing and singing when we returned to the ship!

    We walked along the perimeter of the original wall that was built to protect the city of San Juan.

    They are restoring the wall.

    It’s wild to see the juxtaposition of the old wall and modern architecture and playgrounds.

    It seems like the entire city is decorated for Christmas! I bet it looks amazing at night!

    Walking in the shade was really nice.

    Loved all the chickens running around the city!

    We made our way down to the ocean while following the wall.

    We found a beautiful fountain,

    In this little alcove I stopped to take a seat for a moment. A lady sat down next to me and we got to talking. She was there on the MSC Grandiosa, on a 17 day transatlantic cruise. That’s a LONG time to be on a cruise ship!!!

    I like this little turret. People used to be tiny!

    This is me walking into the original gate to the city.

    CSP & I in front of the giant Christmas tree!

    We went through the gate to the city and climbed this cobblestone hill.

    We couldn’t believe how bumpity the roads are!

    Streets are super narrow and you have to be a champion parallel parker to live in San Juan!

    I love all the brightly colored, gorgeous homes!

    We liked this beautiful park .

    Gorgeous church!

    We even saw where they invented the piña colada! We bought a magnet to commemorate our time in San Juan and made our way back to the port. As we entered the port area, we witnessed a huge shouting match between a taxi driver and a tourist. It was SO loud!

    CSP took this selfie of us in front of the I love Puerto Rico sign. He’s 6 foot 5 inches tall and seems to forget I’m much shorter than he is! I’m on my tip toes here trying to get into the shot! LOL

    See the opening on the top deck? That’s the net I showed you from the other day that you can lay on…if you’re brave!!!

    We boarded the ship and went up to the Galley for a late lunch. Above is the map of the Galley. The Galley is open 24 hours a day, so you can always find something to eat.

    There are these 2 grab and go stations at both entrances to the Galley. You can get salads, wraps, sandwiches, fruit, desserts, granola bars, etc. here. CSP would pick up charcuterie to keep in our room fridge for later when he’d get hungry.

    On our way to our room we passed these crew members cleaning. LOVE the backpack vacuum cleaner!

    View from our balcony after we set sail from San Juan of the other 3 ships in port.

    We went back to our cabin to change out of our sweaty clothes, nap, shower, then dress for dinner. Dinner tonight is at Pink Agave. We were a bit early for our reservation so we took a seat at Sailor Services where we saw this sign.

    Finally it was time for our reservation so we made our way in to Pink Agave.

    I love the entrance to this restaurant! It, like most of the ship, is v v Instagram worthy!

    Love the light fixtures in the bar!

    I love the artwork on the menu!

    They gave us spiced nuts to start that CSP loved.

    CSP started with the guacamole that came with pomegranate seeds, so pretty! He says it’s really yummy too!

    I started with the street corn. Delicious!

    We both got the shrimp appetizer too. So good! Those are little potatoes with the shrimp.

    For my entree I had the chicken enchiladas that are on the appetizer menu. Soooo yummy!

    CSP had the pork which came with handmade tortillas.

    For dessert I had the flan and CSP had the chocolate tacos. Mine was excellent and CSP enjoyed his very much!

    After dinner we walked around the ship a bit and scoped out where our cabin is located for our next cruise. Then it was time for bed!

    Tomorrow we are in Samana, in the Dominican Republic!

  • Today is another sea day.

    This morning we went back to the Galley for breakfast.

    Our view from our table at breakfast.

    We ran into the man from Wales that we met at Gunbae! Benefits of a smaller ship. FYI our ship can hold approximately 2770 passengers, but on this voyage there are only about 2100 passengers.

    I had blueberry pancakes, and CSP had salmon, cheese, and onions. He LOVES all the fresh salmon! Then we went for trivia again at the Social Club.

    I got 22 out of 30 correct. Not bad! There was a guy who got all 30 correct! Amazing!!! After trivia we picked up our free coffee drink of the day.

    At the Grounds Club coffee bar. There’s lots of seating, some people were even on zoom calls.

    Virgin status matched us since we are Platinum on Disney Cruise Line, so even though this is our first Virgin Voyage, we will get loyalty perks like one free coffee drink a day (regular coffee is always free) and a free bag of laundry!

    Virgin has an amazing selection of pastries that rotates throughout the day- all complimentary!

    Next it was time for lunch, so back to the Galley we went. I had chicken and shrimp Pad Thai from Noodle Around

    and CSP had sushi from Bento Baby.

    You can either go get your food yourself, or scan for the menus and then raise the flag on this little sign and a server will come around to take your order and bring you your food.

    Back to the Social Club for music trivia.

    If you’re wondering why we didn’t take advantage of the pool area during these sea days, it’s because I recently had foot surgery on my left foot and am confined to wearing sneakers basically 24/7. I can’t get in the pool or ocean this trip. Whomp whomp. So it’s inside activities for us! This time we sat in the Loose Cannon bar next to the Social Club because the social club was full!

    We didn’t do as well with music trivia. It was really tough! And I know my music!

    Another cool thing about the Social Club is they have a big cabinet FILLED with games. We saw SO many people doing puzzles, playing cards, and playing board games on this cruise- more than any other cruise we’ve ever been on!

    Afterward we went to the Galley to refill our tumblers then we explored the back of the ship. There’s an indoor lounging area called the Dock House and and outside lounging area called the Dock that overlooks the wake.

    in the Dock House
    CSP looking out at the wake.
    The Dock lounge area

    Then we found a cool lounging area near the Pizza Place & ice cream shop

    They make their own ice cream and have daily special flavors.

    on deck 7 where we read for a couple of hours….

    …until out of the blue it started pouring rain on us!!! So we went to our cabin to read on the balcony since it’s covered.

    The lights are always a different color in the hallways! Blue, purple, pink, red…

    Later we got ready for dinner.

    I took this picture ^^^ to remind you all that the walls of your cruise cabin are almost always made out of metal, and are therefore magnetic. Bring magnetic hooks (click the link to find some for less than $10) to provide yourself with more vertical storage!

    Dinner tonight was in Razzle Dazzle.

    the entrance to Razzle Dazzle

    Razzle Dazzle is a vegetable forward restaurant. I was a little nervous if CSP would like it because he’s very Mr. Meat, but he LOVED it! We were seated at our table and the woman next to me was on her phone. Her flash kept going off in my face! Ugh! Luckily she was finishing up her meal, and her phone call when we were seated.

    For our appetizers we ordered the fried green tomatoes and okra.

    CSP ordered the Old Bay chicken wings.

    For our entrees, CSP ordered the Mahi Mahi

    And I chose the V’s fried chicken with biscuit.

    We shared an order of the smoked carrots.

    They are amazing, and I don’t normally like carrots! CSP even said the carrots were the best thing he’d eaten all cruise so far!!!

    For dessert we shared the smoked creme bruleé. It was delicious!

    After dinner we went back up to the Galley to refill our tumblers then it was time for bed.

    One of the stairwells. I really like all the iridescent touches they use in the decor around the ship. It’s a v modern ship for sure!

    The Roundabout that connects decks 6 & 7.

    Tomorrow we are in San Juan!

  • We woke up fairly early today and got ready for our first sea day. CSP SOAKED the bathroom by turning on the shower wand without knowing it. That shower has incredible water pressure and water shot out of the shower wand like a cannon and soaked the entire bathroom! Bahahaha!!! We spotted the Disney Treasure off in the distance from our balcony! See you in 2027 Treasure!

    We went up to the Galley for breakfast.

    I had French toast and CSP had an eggs Benedict with Chorizo. The ship is still really rocking! We are bouncing around like ping pong balls when walking the halls!

    Next we went to the Virgin gift shop to get our traditional magnet souvenir.

    Then we decided to explore the ship a bit.

    I like how in each elevator bank there is a directory and a hand sanitizer station.

    The ship is decorated for Christmas and there are tons of places all throughout the ship that are perfect for taking pictures!

    This ^^^ is the Roundabout. There is not a grand atrium like some cruise ships, instead there’s the Roundabout. It spans two decks.

    This ^^^ Season’s Greetings backdrop is SOOO cute but CSP is too tall and we couldn’t get him to fit in here to get our picture. Whomp whomp, lol.

    We went up to decks 15 & 16- the pool and sports decks. It was SO WINDY!

    Pickleball court

    This ^^^ is the net. You can lay out on this but warning! You’re over the ocean 16 decks up in the air! This is at the back of the ship and I am way too much of a scaredy cat to lay out on this net!

    It’s an empty hot tub!!! That never happens!!!
    There’s all sorts of exercise equipment on this deck.
    Lots of places to lounge!
    The main pool was hopping!
    Giant chess!

    I was so windblown after our tour, so we went back to the cabin for a quick minute so I could brush my wild hair!

    We then went down to deck 7 to the Social Club for trivia. I love these sea horses outside of the Social Club!

    They don’t move but make for great pics for the gram!

    I am a big trivia nerd and love to play! We finished in the top 5! I use the term “WE” loosely, as CSP was little help! LOL. If I needed a name he would just say “BOB”. I said why do you keep saying Bob? He said “Eventually I’ll be right” 😂 He was not. LOL

    After trivia we went to check out Bingo with the Diva (drag bingo). The line was LONG already, and we went down an hour before the start time! The Virgin app didn’t tell us how much bingo cards were, so we inquired while we were there, and decided we would wait and play on our next voyage.

    It was time for lunch so we went to the Pizza Place.

    They make your pizza on demand, and boy is it good! CSP got Pretty Fly for a White Pie, and I got the Chicken Pesto pizza.

    We ate in the Pizza Place (hands down the best pizza at sea), then for dessert, we stopped by Lick Me Til Ice Cream for a cone. The ice cream is delicious and they have special flavors that change each day.

    We popped back to our cabin and found presents on our bed!

    There was an Inky the Octopus ornament and 2 Ahoy 2025 pins! So nice!

    We took a nap then showered and dressed for dinner. Dinner tonight was at Extra Virgin, the Italian restaurant. None of the restaurants onboard charge you for eating there, unless you choose an item off their menu that comes with an upcharge. We didn’t spend a dime on food and were vv well fed!

    Vikos from India was our server and he did a wonderful job! He thought I didn’t order enough to eat so he insisted on bringing out the sea bass in addition to my choices. I was a good sport and tried the sea bass, but it had the skin on it, which skeeved me out, so I gave it to CSP.

    To start, we were given delicious focaccia bread with balsamic vinegar and olive oil.

    CSP ordered mussels, the charcuterie board, spaghetti alle vongole (with clams), and the NY strip.

    I chose the aroncini (spelling??) and bucatini alla carbonara with the brussell sprouts in polenta.

    For dessert I chose the bread pudding and CSP got the affogato (ice cream and coffee prepared table side. like a coffee float).

    It was a long dinner so afterward we went back to our room for bed! Tomorrow is another sea day!

  • We are going on our very first Virgin Voyage cruise and we are so excited!!! Yesterday we drove to Cape Canaveral. About 2 hours into our drive I realized I forgot to pack my flat iron! Yikes! CSP said “What is that? Is that something you use every day?” I explained what a flat iron is and that yes, I do use it each day. THANK GOODNESS for Target and their order online then drive up to pick it up service! When we stopped at Buc-ee’s for gas and food I ordered a flat iron from Target and then we picked it up on our way to our hotel a few hours later. Whew! We stayed at the Residence Inn by Marriott in Cape Canaveral.

    Today we woke up at 6 am and I couldn’t get back to sleep so we got up and had breakfast there at the hotel. Then we got ready and packed the car back up and drove the remaining 4 hours to Miami. It would have only been about 3 hours 15 minutes but there were wrecks all over I95 and tons of traffic! And it’s Saturday!!! We got to the port of Miami and had to drive the loop THRICE before we saw the TINY sign for Terminal V. Parking is not fun at the port of Miami, but I finally found a space and we made our way to check in.

    We checked in for our very first Virgin Voyage at about 2:35 PM. Our assigned port arrival time was 2:30 PM so we were able to walk right in without standing in line. We breezed through security and check in and then we boarded the Resilient Lady! Once you board a Virgin Voyage your room is ready for you so we went straight up to deck 13 room 13126Z to drop off our bags.

    Our room is a Central Sea Terrace (translation- a balcony cabin centrally located midship). Here is a tour:

    This is the panel outside our door. You hold your bracelet up to the (((.))) symbol to unlock the door (more on the bracelet later). There’s a doorbell (love that!), and the red light indicates Do Not Disturb, a blue light indicates Service Room.

    The view of the room from the door.

    The closet is the first thing you see on the left. There are 2 shelves with baskets.

    There’s a small refrigerator on the left, then 2 cubbies, then a vanity/desk area with a stool.

    There’s a chair (v comfortable) that’s next to a low table with a large drawer and a tray.

    There is a red throw blanket on the end of the bed. There’s also a C shaped table that you can move all around the room.

    The bathroom. There’s a good amount of counter space. The toilet is larger than most cruise ship toilets, which is nice. Tip- ask for extra towels right away. There were only 2 bath towels and one bath mat. There are also 2 hand towels and 2 makeup cloths.

    When we got to our room there were also 2 beach towels on the low table. There’s room under the bed for your suitcases. The bed comes with 4 sleeping pillows and 2 throw pillows. The bed is firm, but v comfortable.

    The rest of the bathroom. The mirror is lit and v large. There’s nice smelling hand soap on the sink. Your walk in shower is large for a cruise ship. They supply shampoo, conditioner, and body wash in pump bottles. There’s a little shelf, a rain shower head and also a handheld shower wand.

    The balcony has 2 chairs, a small table, and a hammock, that CSP LOVES!

    We watched the safety muster video on our phones. Our luggage was delivered super quickly so we brought that inside the room then went to check in at our muster station- The Test Kitchen (one of the restaurants onboard).

    They had created a mermaid out of herbs on the counter in the Test Kitchen! So pretty!

    After checking in for muster, we went up to the Galley for lunch. There is no buffet on Virgin Voyages (yay!). The Galley has a lot of different food stations where you can order food. I got a caprese panini and CSP got sushi.

    The Galley was SUPER crowded! We got ice cream then went to the coffee bar for our free coffee drinks of the day (more on that later). Then we went back to our cabin where we met our cabin steward, Agus from Bali. He asked us to call him G. Super nice and helpful man. Then we unpacked and set up our room for the week.

    This is a picture of the wearable Virgin gives you at check in. It’s an adjustable rope bracelet with a little anchor closure. The grey rectangle is what acts as your door unlocking mechanism. It also acts as your credit card onboard, as well as you tap in and tap out when you board and leave the ship. The bracelet is waterproof and comfortable to wear. I found it extremely convenient compared to a cruise card.

    There was a daily activities newsletter in our room as well. Everything nowadays is in the app on your phone, but you can still pick up a paper newsletter at the Grounds Club coffee bar and at Sailor Services.

    The sun set and it was finally time for sail away. We watched sail away from our balcony. The Miami skyline is beautiful.

    We passed MSC World America, which is a HUGE ship! It was so cool, everyone was cheering and waving their mobile phone lights!

    After sail away we got dressed for dinner. Dinner tonight was in Gunbae. Virgin doesn’t have a main dining room. Instead you make reservations prior to boarding the ship for one of the different restaurants on the ship. They all have different menus and themes. I’d read that Gunbae is a good one for night one because you are seated with strangers. Then you end up seeing those people around the ship the rest of the week.

    Gunbae is Korean for “Cheers” and is a Korean BBQ restaurant.

    We were seated with 2 other couples, one from Raleigh (!), and one from Cardiff, Wales, UK. They were all SO nice! None of us had ever been to Gunbae so our server decided to just bring us basically the entire menu!

    This is a neighboring empty table so you can see how the set up is.

    We started with a kimchi sampler.

    There’s lotus root, kimchi, eggplant, and some sort of green.

    We also had a beef stew, a seafood stew, short ribs, crispy chicken, a cucumber & avocado salad, kimchi pancake, and a seafood & scallion pancake. Food was coming fast and hot and I couldn’t keep up taking photos of it all!

    After all those dishes, our server then grilled shrimp, scallops, calamari, octopus, bacon, and bulgogi (strips of beef). I don’t eat pork or beef, but I really enjoyed the chicken and seafood!

    For dessert we had black sesame ice cream and a sweet Korean pancake.

    Gunbae was really fun and social! The restaurant is located in the back of the ship and boy, the ship was ROCKING tonight!!! Tip- our clothes really smelled like the BBQ after dinner. We had to air them out in our room, so pack accordingly.

    After dinner we went up to the Galley to fill my tumbler for the night and while we were there CSP picked up a gingerbread man! So cute!

    Then it was time for bed! Tomorrow is our first sea day!

  • BBs it’s the finale! Let’s get into it! We rejoin Cindy and Mel in Antigua at Fake Dinner. Mel tells Cindy he won’t be proposing at the end of this journey and they may have to wait 2 years before they would get married. TWO YEARS!!! Two years when you’re in your 60s is a LOT different than 2 years when you’re in your 20s. So I am not shocked in the least when Cindy says that’s a different outcome than what she’d considered. She says I want my guy to feel like he’s been struck by lightning & can’t live without me. She decides to leave. Mel walks her out and then she breaks down in tears. Ironically, fireworks then go off.

    Jesse comes out to the dock to talk to Mel. Jesse asks do you want to go find Cindy?

    Then we cut to Cindy in LA at After the Final Rose. Mel did NOT go after Cindy in Antigua. BTW, it’s pronounced ANTIG-AH, not ANTIG-WAH, just in case you were wondering. LOL

    Cindy looks amazing in a silver dress. Jesse asks her do you wish you would have stayed? Cindy says I shouldn’t have to convince a man to love me. AMEN CINDY!!!

    Mel comes out in a black suit and giant white sneakers. Cindy asks him When did you know you weren’t ready for a proposal? Mel says because she didn’t stay for the Fantasy Suites she robbed them of that time and that would have gotten Mel there. I DON’T BELIEVE YOU MEL. He’s a moron. Cindy says she was willing to move to California and Mel says “That doesn’t interest me though”. Ugh.

    Cindy is v classy through this whole thing. Way to go Cin.

    Back in Antigua, Mel comes to see Peg in her room. He tells Peg about Cindy leaving, and Peg is SHOOK. Peg goes to meet Mel’s 2 sons and his old friend Diane from college. Mel’s sons LOVE Peg and so does Diane. They all think she’s a great match for Mel. Peg does tell Diane she’s not there yet when Diane asks if Peg is in love with Mel.

    The next day they meet up on this TINY WEE island. They arrive separately by boat and obviously no one told Peg about the location because she’s in a gorgeous dress and heels and is soaked by the time she gets to the island. Mel gives her a diamond ring “as a symbol” of their commitment, but there’s no proposal.

    Back in LA, Mel and Peg come out on stage and declare their love for each other. Good for them. I love Peg. I just think Mel is used to getting what he wants and doesn’t know how to deal with emotions.

    Then they show bloopers from the season which are really cute and a little segment on Mel and the food. The man is always eating! He even has production pack up Fake Dinner for him to eat later after one of his dates! HA!

    And that’s it for this season! There was also a segment with the new Bachelorette, Taylor Frankie Paul, but that’s a whole other story! Until next time BBs, xo 🌹

  • BBs! It’s Fantasy Suites week and we are in Antigua with Mel, Peg, and Cindy.

    First up we have a 1-1 with Peg. Mel tells Peg he missed her twice when they meet up. That’s a good sign! Mel pulls up in a dune buggy and they go riding with Mel in the driver’s seat. He’s driving like a GRANDPA going like 8 MPH. SOOOO SLOW!!! Finally they swap and Peg drives and takes off like a bat outta hell baby!!! Later, they are chatting and Peg is trying to get Mel to open up about his feelings and he keeps deflecting. Then finally she says “How do you feel about us?” and he says “I really like you”. Yay! Baby steps!

    Peg says yes to the Fantasy Suite and they seem super happy the next morning.

    Cindy’s 1-1 is next. Cindy and Mel go out on a boat and they get to have a PRIVATE SWIM WITH STINGRAYS!!! I’m SO jealous!!! Cindy is all about the stingrays and jumps right in, where Mel is super anxious about them. He thought stingrays were the size of a plate, then calls them prehistoric monsters! SIR! They are the puppies of the sea! Mel is just standing there in the water and he won’t go near the stingrays. He won’t touch them or even go near Cindy (who’s covered in stingrays at this point). Cindy is trying so hard to get Mel to relax, and FINALLY he pets one. Huzzah!!!

    Later, Cindy asks Mel “what do you see for us?” Mel keeps saying a relationship will have to develop over time. It’s kind of a non answer. He even says he doesn’t have any questions for her. HOW is that possible??? I have questions for her and I’m not the one dating her! Also, she’s saying their chemistry is off the charts, and BBs, I’m not seeing it. Not at all. I mean, they make out and what not, but with Peg I can see a spark. Sorry, Cindy.

    Next week is the 2 hour finale! Until then BBs, xo 🌹

  • Well BBs, this Women Tell All is a short one- only 42 minutes and it seems like half of that is filled with flashbacks! Most of the women are there- just missing the final two and Diane, who is in Hawaii at her son’s wedding. All of the women talk about their sisterhood and friendships made during filming and I love to see it! Love the love they all have for each other! But then we have Nicolle. UGH, this one! She tells us “I was the trailblazer of the group. I was the pioneer.” And she claims that she was the first one to kiss Mel and then all the sudden all of the other women followed suit. Yeah right. They showed where Nicolle talked about wanting to be an influencer and was “Dating America”. Debbie then says to Nicolle “You dismissed us. You dismissed me. You talk about wanting to be an influencer. You ‘re not going to be an influencer if nobody likes you.” PREACH.

    All of the women look so beautiful! Cheryl and Debbie both take a turn in the hot seat, but it’s short and uneventful. Debbie says she wishes she had more time with Mel. I think they all do.

    Mel comes out and Nicolle starts crying (natch) and says she had real feelings for him. Mel wishes her well. Then they show a preview of next week’s finale and that’s it! I told you, it was short! Boo. Until next week BBs!!! xo🌹

  • BBs- this season is winding down quickly! We are already at Hometowns! Tonight we start out in Las Vegas with Peg. Peg is a retired fire fighter/bomb tech so she takes Mel to her old firehouse to tour it. Later they meet Peg’s family. Her brother speaks to Mel first one on one and then Peg’s daughter really grills Mel- and doesn’t like his answers! Also, Peg’s mom is still alive! Way to go! Dakota, Peg’s daughter is really skeptical of Mel because of his vague answers. But honestly, if you’ve seen the show then you know they can’t really say “Oh, she’s the one I want” because there are 3 women left!

    Next is Debbie in Denver. Mel tells Debbie he missed her. Good sign! They explore Red Rocks. It’s stunning! They sit and chat and Debbie shares that her ex killed himself. How horrible! Debbie has really gone through it. Later they go and meet the family. Big family, including Debbie’s TWIN sister! How did I miss that she’s a twin???

    Last is Austin, TX and Cindy. Mel and Cindy meet up and go to meet Cindy’s 3 daughters and two sons in law. One of Cindy’s daughters asks Mel a bunch of questions and does not like his answers. She feels Mel isn’t giving straight answers. Later Mel and Cindy go to Cindy’s condo. It has an amazing view! Cindy says she’s looking for assurances that aren’t coming.

    Rose Ceremony

    All three women look so beautiful! Peg gets the 1st rose and Cindy gets the 2nd. Debbie is going home v v upset. At this point all three women are basically in love with Mel, so it’s real heartbreak here.

    Next week is another favorite episode of mine- Women Tell All!!! Until then BBs. xo 🌹

  • Well, BBs, we only have 6 women left! Neither Carol, nor Cindy have had one on ones yet, and they are hoping for one this week. Next week is Hometowns! Only 3 women get Hometown dates! I’m telling you, this season is FLYING by!!! Jesse tells the women that this week Mel is not giving out roses on the dates.

    Group Date

    Mel and 5 ladies go up to Butterfly Mountain for a spiritual day led by a shaman. Peg & Mel have a mud bath. Cheryl & Mel do a cold plunge and Cheryl tells Mel she’s falling in love with him. Debbie & Mel do tantric yoga, and Debbie also tells Mel she’s falling in love with him. Nicolle (UGH) and Mel have a shaman card reading. Nicolle keeps talking about her Instagram, even with Mel! About how she wants to make money off it. Then she tells Mel, “Give me a kiss for the camera” !!! Carol & Mel do a shamanic clearing to clear their chakras. Carol tells Mel she has to go home since she didn’t get the one on one and doesn’t feel like there’s a real connection. Mel walks her out.

    Cindy 1-1

    Mel & Cindy go to Griffith Park and ride horses up to Griffith Observatory, where they have a picnic. Mel gives Cindy a framed certificate that shows he named a star after her. It’s v sweet and she loves it!

    The next day all the ladies get to FaceTime with their kids, sisters, friends just before the Rose Ceremony. Cindy gets the first rose, then Peg, then Debbie gets the last rose. Going home: Cheryl (sad face!!!), and Nicolle (YAY!!!). Mel walks Cheryl out first and Mel is all choked up. Poor Cheryl is so v sad. Then Mel walks Nicolle out. Nicolle tells Mel “When it doesn’t work out with the one you pick, and it won’t, call me.” THE AUDACITY!!! Then in the car, Nicolle says “Maybe they’ll choose me for the Golden Bachelorette!” PUHLEASE.

    And that’s it for this week BBs! I’ll be back tomorrow with Hometowns! xo🌹

  • BBs, this week we’re down to only 9 women! I tell ya, this season is seriously flying by! Also, I realized tonight when I was watching Golden Bachelor that they considered the first episode Weeks 1 & 2, which makes this week technically week 4. Ay yi yi. Well, it’s too late for me to go back and renumber my posts so just bear with me!

    Peg 1-1

    Peg and Mel go to the OC Fair. Fun! They play fair games, eat fair food, and ride fair rides. Then later in the day they go to a KC & the Sunshine Band concert there at the fair. Mel and Peg get to watch the concert from the side stage, then they go on stage where Mel gives Peg the rose.

    The next day, Nicolle is talking about how the previous cast of women was not very good looking! SO MEAN!!! Nicolle also states that after the show is over they will all have Real Housewives status and that she wants to be an influencer. Hmmm, me thinks someone is not here for the right reasons!

    Group Date

    The ladies and Mel go to Malibu for photo shoots with People magazine. Debbie gets a wee bit emotional because she gets to wear a wedding dress and be the beach bride. Until today she’d never worn a wedding dress. So nice!!! All the ladies get to dress up in different themes: pin up girls, bedroom beauties, etc. The photographer chooses Cindy to get another shoot with Mel because they have the best chemistry. All the other ladies watch as Cindy and Mel roll around in the surf!

    Later, Carol kisses Mel. Carol is super shy and reserved so this is a huge deal for her. Meanwhile, Nicolle is still talking brand deals etc. So Robin tells Mel that “some people” aren’t here for the right reasons, but doesn’t name names. Mel doesn’t believe Robin. He thinks she’s off the mark. Carol gets the Group Date rose.

    Next Day

    Instead of a cocktail party before the rose ceremony they have a tailgate party. The ladies decide to make Mel his favorite desert- lemon bars. Nicolle says the lemon bars were “all her” and she did all the heavy lifting when in reality it was 3 other women making the lemon bars while Nicolle was in the hot tub sporting a face mask!

    During the tailgate party they play beer pong with prune juice. Ha!

    Nicolle gives Mel the lemon bars and takes FULL CREDIT for them! She mentions that she went to culinary school and that she made the lemon bars herself. LAME!!! Then Nicolle says to Mel “We should jump in the pool with our clothes on, it would make great TV”. UGH. I can’t with her.

    Rose Ceremony

    Peg & Carol have roses and there are 4 roses left. The four roses go to:

    1. Debbie
    2. Cindy
    3. Cheryl
    4. Nicolle. BLEH.

    Roxanne, Robin, and Gerri go home. Mel walks Gerri out to the car, that’s when I notice that Mel’s in a camo suit. That’s indeed a choice. Then he comes back to the women and they all jump into the pool in their clothes. EYE ROLL.

    And that’s it for this week BBs! Until next week! xo 🌹

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