Single white female?
I know this girl, let’s call her Linda, and I’ve known her for a few years. We’re not quite friends like I’m friends with other people, we don’t hang out a lot. But we’ll go to a movie now and then. She’s a nice enough girl and I feel kind of badly for her because she seems lonely.
Anyway, she’s always told me how much she likes my husband, which is a good thing. He’s a quiet guy, not the life of the party, and I appreciate the compliments. But lately it’s started to get kind of weird. At least once a week she makes comments about him. How he’s a hottie, or how cool he is, or she’ll give me cd’s to loan him, or ask me to ask him if he’s got this new cd. And lately the comments have turned more…hmmm, intimate. Recently she’s said things like “man, Jon and I were made for each other I tell ya.” and “I just love your husband.” And not too long ago she even told me she had a hootchie bootchie dream about him! (don’t want to get the search engines all excited, you know what I mean). I felt that was a little inappropriate. I mean, we can’t control our dreams, but we can control our mouths.
And here’s the kicker, she never sees him! They rarely run into each other, and if they do, I’m there. She’s probably spent a combined total of 2 hours in his presence in her life!
So, what do I do? It’s starting to make me feel a little uncomfortable. They never see each other, I totally trust my boy, I don’t think she’d ever try and make a move on him, but it’s just a little weird. I have to see her at least 4 days a week, there’s no getting around that. I can’t be too detailed about how I know her just in case she finds this somehow, but this is not a relationship I can terminate. So, am I the weird one? Is this normal? Or is it out of line? Do I say something to her, or just let it go?
Bless Your Heart 